Everyone was out of sorts. Lexi wanted nothing but to sniff Sebastian to death. We wanted to kill Lexi, and Sebastian wanted to be held all night long. He wouldn't breast feed (and he's a champ) and he would NOT sleep a wink if he was put down in the co-sleeper along side our bed. I didn't sleep 5 minutes all night long. Carlos probably slept 10 minutes if he was lucky. I did hear him snoring a few times, so he managed some sleep, though!
I was so stressed out in the morning that Carlos called in reinforcements without my even knowing. He got my mom to come to the rescue and take Lexi for a few days until we can settle into a routine with Sebastian and Adrian (who may come home as early as Sunday or Monday, but we'll see). My mom had been offering to take Lexi all along when the boys came home, but I wanted to at least see how bad it would be. Now I know. She actually wasn't bad. She just has to get her fill of sniffing the boys. And I don't have the patience for her drool everywhere right now, and her being underfoot all the time makes me worried about tripping over her. But hopefully once both boys are in a routine of sorts here at home, Lexi can do all of her inspecting and sniffing, get it out of her system, and stop fussing so much about their presence at home.
This morning we barely made it to our pediatrician appointment at 10:30. It was so crazy. Sebastian slept the second we put him in the car seat. He just misses feeling like he's in a tight space. We had him in a sleep sack to sleep (to prevent SIDS), but he's used to being swaddled in a blanket and then padded with a nice little preemie mattress and sometimes towels and blankets. He was so "free" in his sleep sack that he could actually turn himself on his side, which sort of defeats the purpose of the sleep sack!
I think he was also so tired from lack of sleep that he didn't have the energy to breast feed. At first I couldn't get him to stop crying long enough to even try to feed (although he would take a bottle). Finally, this afternoon after he'd calmed down a bit, Lexi was gone, and I felt more relaxed, he was able to feed well. Then he slept in the co-sleeper and we took a nap for 3 hours. I woke him up to feed and take his iron and vitamins and he went back to sleep in his bed again and is still sleeping. I hope he can continue this during the night...
Today was the first day that we didn't go to the NICU to see the boys. When I called to speak to the nurse earlier today, I actually asked for the nurse in charge of the "Kirkcaldy boys." I completely forgot that one of them was home. So, poor Adrian didn't get a visit today, and I felt terrible about it. But, the visit was really about us, not him. The reality is they take wonderful care of him and it doesn't make much difference to him if we miss a day. The nurse on duty (who we don't know) encouraged us to stay home today and nap and try to establish a routine with Sebastian instead of sending just me to the hospital and leaving Carlos alone with Sebastian. As much as I hated to not go see him, he'll be home soon enough, and the nap we took this afternoon was much appreciated and needed! And, Adrian is a superstar all of a sudden--the transfusion did him a lot of good.
Let's hope tonight goes better.